Kino Process
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The Kino Process is a process involving (usually) discreet physical contact to create attraction. Generally, if the Kino Process is not used within a short time period of meeting a woman, she will very naturally put you on her Friends Ladder. It is something that must be used in order to create immediate, lasting physical attraction between a man and woman. Please read the articles below to further understand the Kino Process and why it is important to take into account when meeting new women.
Examples of Kino (in basic order of appearance, with VERY basic 'stage' structure loosely based on the M3 Model, and I replaced the word Comfort with Connection in these stages because I think that is a more accurate term):
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Stage 1 (Introduction to Basic Attraction Stage)
- Touching of the hand/arm.
- Handshakes.
- Playful jokes about her 'Man Hands', then comparing hand profiles (palm to palm).
- Plucking a hair or a fuzz from her shoulder or other comfortable body part (whether hair or fuzz is there or not).
Note that in the first stage, the Introduction stage, you are determining whether or not the girl will immediately place you as a pussy, or see potential in you. Attraction starts to happen when you display the proper values to her, which leads into the next stage. The Intro stage is the stage that most (inexperienced) guys fuck up on, remaining clueless for the entire asexual relationship.
Stage 2 (Late Attraction to Early Connection Stage)
- Legs brushing against each other while sitting next to each other.
- Very quick, COMFORTABLE hugs that the male initiates. These can be accompanied by C&F (Cocky and Funny) behaviour to great effect.
- Touching of the back. Guiding the female through a doorway is a great way to touch the back without making an uncomfortable moment - you should probably only do this if other Kino has been initiated to good effect.
The second stage in Kino is probably the most uncomfortable for inexperienced guys, because they aren't used to this territory and feel like they should ask permission before they do these things. No. Never ask permission. There are a few exceptions to the permission rule, but those are for advanced Kino users who know what they are doing anyway.
Stage 3 (Late Connection to Seduction Stage)
- Kissing, massaging, holding, and purposefully sensual touching are all part of this Kino stage.
The third stage is the stage where the girl is connecting your Kino behaviour to sexual thoughts within her own mind and is trying to make sense of it all. This is where you can kiss her and (as long as you have done your job correctly) do pretty much whatever you want with her. She may raise objections, but it is your job as the male to overcome those objections and make her feel comfortable around you.
Please read the following articles, written by Ladder Theory Forum Members, to more fully understand the Kino Process.
Basic articles by forum members:
