Love, Relationships, etc.
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Jimbo
Most fuck-closes lead to painful relationships. Those relationships lead to more pain, IW'dom, loss of all game, and other associated problems.
korosu
lol. Relationships are something else, and most definetely not game. Statistics show that the majority of us will marry and propagate at some point in our lives. I'm sure that a good number of us will stick with one of our spouses (statistics also show that a number of us will divorce multiple times as well), so you have to ask yourself when you see an old couple still in "love" what drives them to stick together?
I've come to the conclusion that for relationships with men who wield some power/choice in their LTRs (men with "game"), the variable that determines whether the relationship will last is really an evaluation of your partner's value. How high is your partner on your ladder?
Life, in the aspect of relationships, is like the MTV show NEXT. You have a few good brief encounters with girls, you might fool around with some and have relationships with others but in the span of a lifetime it's really just a blip. One girl, one love interest, and one fuck after another -- and ultimately you or she realizes that you don't value one another highly enough so you cease to be together. Maybe you were heartbroken, nexted -- or maybe you were the one to NEXT a bitch.
But sooner or later you might meet the girl of your dreams, a girl you value so highly that you don't NEXT her. You don't give a flying fuck who else might be on the bus waiting for you; you make a decision as a man that this is the woman you want. Now that doesn't mean you should turn into a supplicating pussy, but it is a realization and your decision as a man that you make. The decision can end in two ways, maybe she doesn't value you as much as you do her, there is ladder disparity and in that case you will be heartbroken, but maybe she does and you have found that person you will be with until the day you die.
Love and value. Do you value her enough to say fuck the rest?
A wise man once told me that the best things in life take work, commitment to principles, and a chance to lose it all.
Do you love her enough to gamble your heart and put it on the line; to entrust her with it to not break it? Every man has his own answer, and to each his own.
