Cheating

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This topic is one of the more popular topics at the IW.com forums. It usually rears its ugly head when someone new to the forum starts a post off with, "What do you guys think, should I go out with this girl? My girlfriend would KILL me!" Another popular one is, "This girl has a boyfriend, what do you guys think I should do? Should I go for it?"

First, realize boyfriends, in terms of attracting women, are nothing. Ignore their existance.

And second, for the love of whatever god you believe in, please realize you are asking complete strangers online what decisions you should make in real life - more or less, you are asking people online what your moral compass should be.

No one can answer this question accurately, except for you! We do not know if once you do it you will feel like shit. We do not know if once you do it you will be happy with your decision or angry at yourself.

A very common thing for an IW to do is ask what he should do for every situation. This is one of those questions that you have to answer for yourself! Making this decision is one more step to making EVERY decision based on your thoughts and needs, and is one important step in recovering from IWdom. So, if you want to be a better individual, ANSWER THIS ONE YOURSELF!